Every woman wants to be love and be loved in return. Even the woman whose heart is supposedly made of stone loves something or someone .What drives a woman to the point of being harmful both to herself and her family?
There are women who are just pure Jezebels at heart simply mean to the very core of their existence ,such a woman, it is better to live with the Greek myth Medusa than living with such a woman as it can be hell . However ,I am talking about a good ,humble,caring loving woman. Who just went berserk one day and was no longer as loving and caring as she was before.
The dutiful wife decides to be a rebel in her home after she talks to her husband about her needs. Her needs entails her spouse being sensitive to her emotional needs and it is not about sex or being materialistic.
This brings to mind a story of a woman who got married in the 80's .She had put her husband through the University so that they can have a better life.After the sacrifice the husband's attitude towards her changed ,he was no longer the caring man he was before. She tried to reach out to him by talking to him but he was far gone .
He would beat her and throw her belongings out of the house and tell her to leave his house and his life but being that she did not have anywhere else to go she would wait out his anger at her neighbour's flat and go back and beg her husband to take her back.
When all levels of communication had been exhausted the and tried to get the husband's family to talk to him all to no avail .The husband also informed her that he was marrying a second wife.She said she felt used ,when she thought about all she had been through because of her husband due to the fact that her family was against her marrying him as a result they had abandoned her because she was adamant and went ahead to marry her husband .
She waited for him to come home ,tried to reason with him once again and when she realized his mind was made up she went into the kitchen and came back with a steaming red hot knife that she had put on the gas stabbed herself in front of her husband .
Tragic isn't it.Her fraustration got the best of her.if she had a psychologist then she would have been able to know what to do.That was then what would a woman in our generation do ? Look out for Part Two .
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