Forgiveness

"When you forgive,you heal your own anger and hurt and are able to lead again . Its like spring cleaning  for your heart" - Marci Shimoff

Do you agree.?

 Sometimes it seems like the pain will never go away because it hurts so much at the time. The naked truth is that pain gives the one who hurt you  power over you because you still care so much about the one   who must have hurt you .

Women and Men have been hurt by their spouse in one way or the other that it can be so devastating. There are different reactions to different  situations

A man could tell his wife secrets about his life and finances after being ,married to her for period of thirty (30) years only to find same woman using this information about  her once loved spouse to her advantage to ruin and hurt him and vice versa  

A woman could  have given her all to her man ,put him through higher institution ,sacrificed her life for her  marriage by living her life for her family only to be abandoned by same family later on or when she needed them the most   and vice versa .

A woman could be abused emotionally ,physically and mentally,daily at home but will always take her spouse back after he apologizes if he apologizes.

Infidelity is a topical that crops up on both men and women today. Infidelity gives fruit to so many pains that though women are more likely to  forgive ,but will not be forget . The men on the other are most likely not to forgive or forget.

Trust is vital in any relationship; all of the above is betrayal of trust from both parties ,yet men and women all have to find a common ground to live amicably for no one is infallible.

Forgiveness is paramount in a relationship as it heals the soul of all bitterness and purifies the it .