Money In The Family

Money is the essential friend of the husband ,wife and children in a family,because without money there is a huge handicap in the home.

Money is needed for the running of the home in every ramification.Money is vital in a home right from the moment that the man and woman decides to say I do.

Money is one factor that causes misunderstanding in the home.There is no amount of money that is enough for the woman to run the home,as eventualities occur .Prudence is the watch word for the wives and their husbands.Yes it can be quite challenging as the cost of living keeps escalating,but it is paramount that wives manage what they have been given or what they have for the running of the home.

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Couples should try to be least selfish in their dealings and be on same page so that they do not get frustrated while dealing with one another. 

Some wives find themselves as the breadwinner and still have to do both the planning and running of the home due to the lack of assistance from their husbands. It is tough having to handle the bills that come but being responsible for the funds that come into the home,now that is another level. 

It is not a crime to be able to provide for home but it is crime when the husband is unappreciative, complains about not being satisfied by the wife or is out having extra marital affairs.This also applies to the wives whose hardworking husbands are the bread winner .

There are instances where people  lack the basic amenities such shelter,food, and clothing. It brings about pain & aggression in the home or environment. It can be heart wrenching to see your child hungry ,looking malnourished with sunk in  .It could lead to extreme conditions in the home of pity,anger or amidst the challenges they hope for a better tomorrow

However, let us bear in mind that ,when we have money for our necessities it is a gift from God. So when we have enough for luxury items or activities,we should be grateful to God and  appreciate our spouse for providing for the family ,  for it gives  them joy to see their loved ones smile ,as that is the good of having the money to fend for the family .