9 Days to Valentine's Day;To Love or Not to Love

Valentine Day,To Love or Not To Love?

This Valentine 'ehhn' is going to be so 'gengen' meaning It is going to be interesting.

However interesting and romantic it will be for people ,an interesting question was thrown recently in a round table discussion with my friends and it goes like this.

(a)Would you rather have your husband or wife be a tyrant,intolerable,mean and horrible to the spouse through out 365 days in a year but be a romantic angel on Valentine's day or
(b)Would rather have a husband and wife sweet to one another through out the year and not care for Valentine's day to go out and show love to their spouse?

Even though some couples can have the best of both worlds,have a sweet great spouse through out the year and still have to get the Valentine Day's special treat, majority of us settled for 'B' .What is your take on this?