This is an ironic situation usually it is the man who harasses the woman but in this case it a Woman!If the man is the one doing it we call it Domestic Abuse now it is the man.What do we call it? Some men can so gentle and they pick a hot headed woman for a wife.
It is the case here of one business man Mr Seyi Ogundeji,,who has pleaded with the Customary Court to dissolve his marriage to his wife due to incessant fighting,there by creating an unhealthy ambience in the home.
Will you blame the man,there is enough fighting in one's life due to the daily struggles,the home is meant to be a sanctuary not a war zone.
The find the story below as culled from the Vanguard newspaper:
In Abeokuta a business man Mr Seyi Ogundeji,on Friday pleaded with a Customary Court in Ake.Abeokuta,to dissolve his marriage to Biola on grounds of threat to life.
Ogubdeji 34,who resides at 17 ,Oke-Bode,Abeokuta,accussed Biola 29,of public embarrassment and incessant fighting.
"My wife is very troublesome,she usually curses and embarrasses me in public anytime we have a little misunderstanding."
"She also squanders the rents I collect from my tenants.Sometimes ago,she stole my N200,000.00 .She denied stealing it.
Her behaviour made me to marry a second wife .Please separate us before she kills me" Ogundeji urged the court.
Biola,a petty trader did not deny the allegations,but pleaded with the court not to grant her husband's request.
"All he had said is true ,but I am ready to change my ways.he wants to send me away so that the second wife can move into our apartment.
"Help me to appeal to him because there is no man that will marry me at this age',she said.The couple is blessed with a child.
The President of the court ,Mr Isreal Fajebe said that there was little room for reconciliation and fixed February 13 for judgement.
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