Tuesday 18 February 2014

What Husbands & Wives Should Tell Their Teenage Daughters



It is generally accepted that  daughters are unique.They are the children that think about people at home even when they are far from home.It does not mean that ,sons are not wonderful but daughters are thoughtful and sensitive to those things that sons might not be.

Have we ever thought about the gift of having our daughters.Why do parents want to protect them from people that will hurt them?Why do we have to stress the need for our daughters to be independent and still have a feminine attributes with morals.?Why do we show love to them /

Daughters have different relationships with their mothers and fathers.While they are being groomed ,it is essential to express things we should tell our daughters as they grow older,as they are the future wives and mothers of tomorrow. 

Telling them these things helps them build their psyche and self worth.The following are what should be said to the daughters especially the teenage daughters:

  • Dress properly- They can be trendy and still dress elegantly,for you dress the way you want to be addressed.
  • Know your worth-Knowing that she is loved , she would have pride in herself and be confident..
  • Being Intimate with boys - It is good to be friends with boys but she should not listen to the first John that proclaims an undying love for her.It is better to wait for the right time,when she is wiser and more matured.
  • Sex -Do not be in a hurry to have sex .It can lead to unwanted pregnancies,sexually transmitted diseases or worse HIV/AIDS.The baby daddy can disown the pregnancy.What a shame!
  • Peers-Be very mindful of the company you keep  for they can be great influence.So it is either they influence you for good or bad.
  • Benefit of hard work- To be strong in her work ethic, gives her the zeal and apparatus to have a great morale standing  and propel her to a future of nation building.
  • Role Model- The daughter will have someone she looks up to and acts accordingly because some day she will be a role model to some little girl.The question is do you want to be a positive role model or negative role model? 
  • To be religious- Being religious ,is a great guide.Loving and worshipping God never goes wrong keeps one on track

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